From Isolation to Community - Nic Flores Interview

In this conversation on the Smashing Idols podcast, host Jake Doberenz interviews Nic Flores about the emotional and spiritual roots of isolation and the healing power of community. Drawing from personal experiences in ministry, shame, and eventual reconnection, Nic challenges the idol of self-sufficiency and reflects on how trauma, rejection, and church culture can contribute to withdrawal from meaningful relationships. He outlines how a distorted search for belonging shaped his faith journey and how authentic, empathetic communities can offer a path back. This episode unpacks the nuanced reasons people disconnect and offers insight into what it means to truly welcome others in the name of Jesus.

Key takeaways from this episode:

1. Isolation often stems from unresolved pain or shame, not just a desire to be alone—and healing starts with naming those internal wounds.

2. Churches that genuinely welcome people create space for doubt, questions, and diverse backgrounds—not just surface-level inclusion.

3. Authentic community doesn’t just happen—it requires vulnerability, repeated efforts, and safe environments where people can come as they are.

Important Links:

• Nic Flores
  on Substack

• Clean Plate Club Podcast on YouTubw

• Estranged Millennials Podcast on Instagram

• MenSkills Program

Nic Flores is a designer, podcaster, and former ministry leader who explores the intersection of faith, trauma, and authenticity. He co-hosts two podcasts—Clean Plate Club and Estranged Millennials—that reflect his passion for healing, community, and honest conversation.

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